Every New Year we all come up with goals, visions and resolutions that we aspire to achieve. Could be career, body image, education or overall mental well-being. I am curious to know what your aspirations are this year.
We live in a world that preaches the importance of happiness. We make goals, do things in pursuit of this thing called happiness. We follow people who seem to have figured it out and are happy with the hope we will feel the same someday. But what does it really mean to be happy?
Is it the presence of finer things in life? Is it the ratio of your waistline to your butt? Is it financial freedom? Level of education? Is it being in a loving relationship?
A friend of mine recently told me that the real “true love” is the love you will have when you have kids. I don’t know how true this is, guess I will have to be a mother first.
A lot of you reading this mostly are here because you either know me in person, loves my online appearance/personality or mostly loves my Relationship.
I see a lot of #truelove #relationshipgoals not only on my Instagram but also similar accounts. My question is, what does love mean to you? Is it being in synch with your partner emotionally, mentally and physically? Is it the passion? Undivided attention?
Is it the absence of betrayal? Or is it how you deal with it when it happens? Is it the absence of deal breakers?
Is it the expensive gifts or the little gestures? Is it the dream vacations or the candid moments at home? Is love the ultimate happiness?
I have pondered a lot regarding this topic and to be honest I don’t have an answer.
Tell me what true love is to you.